在尝试向同一数据库中添加新元素时，如何验证该元素是否已在我的数据库中？
我知道它可能需要一些sql代码，但我不能做我想做的事情：
这是按钮的完整代码：

protected void Button1_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
{
    if (FileUpload1.PostedFile != null)
    {
        string FileName = Path.GetFileName(FileUpload1.PostedFile.FileName);
        //saves files in the disk
        FileUpload1.SaveAs(Server.MapPath("images/" + FileName));
        //add an entry to the database
        String strConnString = ConfigurationManager.ConnectionStrings["WebAppConnString"].ConnectionString;

        MySqlConnection con = new MySqlConnection(strConnString);
        string strQuery = "insert into testingdb.country (Relation, FileName, FilePath) values (@Relation, @FileName, @FilePath)";
        MySqlCommand cmd = new MySqlCommand(strQuery);

        cmd.Connection = con;
        cmd.Parameters.AddWithValue("@Relation", TextBox1.Text);
        cmd.Parameters.AddWithValue("@FileName", FileName);
        cmd.Parameters.AddWithValue("@FilePath", "images/" + FileName);
        cmd.CommandType = CommandType.Text;

        try
        {
            if (File.Exists(Server.MapPath("images/" + FileName)))
            {
                Response.Write("El Objeto ya existe en la base de datos.");
            }
            else
            {
                con.Open();
                cmd.ExecuteNonQuery();
            }

        }
        catch (Exception ex)
        {
            Response.Write(ex.Message);
        }
        finally
        {
            con.Close();
            con.Dispose();
            Response.Redirect(Request.Url.AbsoluteUri);
        }
    }
}

怎么做？我刚开始使用asp.net和mysql连接/命令。