我曾经遇到过同样的问题，也找不到解决办法，所以我只好自己制定解决办法。
为此，我使用了javafx的 Timeline 这将使你能够在第一次点击时开始一条时间线，并且取决于你之后是否进行第二次点击，它将认为是一次点击或双击，但决不能同时进行两次点击。
以下是我的解决方案：

// initialize your timeline
final Timeline clickTimeline = new Timeline();
// minimum duration of a double click 500ms
Duration clickDuration = Duration.millis(500);
KeyFrame clickKeyFrame = new KeyFrame(clickDuration);
boolean isClickTimelinePlaying = false;
clickTimeline.getKeyFrames().add(clickKeyFrame);

addEventFilter(MouseEvent.MOUSE_CLICKED, e -> {
  if (isClickTimelinePlaying) {
    // when clicking the second time before the time line finishes
    isClickTimelinePlaying = false;
    fireEvent(new FlightListEvents(FlightListEvents.FLIGHT_BUTTON_DOUBLE_CLICKED, this.aircraft));
    clickTimeline.stop();
  } else {
    // when clicking for the first time
    isClickTimelinePlaying = true;
    // start the timeline
    clickTimeline.play();
  });
}

// if timeline finises without receiving a second click, consider it a single click
clickTimeline.setOnFinished(event -> {
  fireEvent(new FlightListEvents(FlightListEvents.FLIGHT_BUTTON_CLICKED, this.aircraft));
  isClickTimelinePlaying = false;
});