我需要将服务的IP设置为null，会话关联设置为null，使服务成为headless。当mongo最初试图与sthe服务交互时，它看到了服务的IP，并认为它在引用自己。
地形设定：

resource "kubernetes_service" "mongodb-service" {
  metadata {
    name      = "mongo"
    namespace = kubernetes_namespace.atlas-project.id
    labels = {
      "name" = "mongo"
    }
  }
  spec {

    selector = {
      app = "mongo"
    }
    cluster_ip       = null
    session_affinity = null
    port {
      port        = 27017
      target_port = 27017
    }

    type = "LoadBalancer"
  }
  lifecycle {
    ignore_changes = [spec[0].external_ips]
  }
}