显然projectOptions不是公共的，所以我必须在代码中重新创建相同的逻辑才能使其工作：

所以我的代码最后是

func (s *service) create(ctx context.Context) {
    yamlFilePath := "/home/ubuntu/junk/wp/docker-compose.yml"

    options, err := cli.NewProjectOptions(
        []string{yamlFilePath},
        cli.WithResolvedPaths(true),
        cli.WithOsEnv,
        cli.WithDotEnv,
        cli.WithConfigFileEnv,
        cli.WithDefaultConfigPath,
    )
    if err != nil {
        panic(err)
    }

    project, err := cli.ProjectFromOptions(options)
    if err != nil {
        panic(err)
    }

    for i, s := range project.Services {
        s.CustomLabels = map[string]string{
            api.ProjectLabel:     project.Name,
            api.ServiceLabel:     s.Name,
            api.VersionLabel:     api.ComposeVersion,
            api.WorkingDirLabel:  project.WorkingDir,
            api.ConfigFilesLabel: strings.Join(project.ComposeFiles, ","),
            api.OneoffLabel:      "False", // default, will be overridden by `run` command
        }
        if options.EnvFile != "" {
            s.CustomLabels[api.EnvironmentFileLabel] = options.EnvFile
        }
        project.Services[i] = s
    }

    if err := s.apiService.Create(ctx, project, api.CreateOptions{}); err != nil {
        panic(err)
    }
}

基本上我从www.example.com复制了相同的代码https://github.com/docker/compose/blob/v2/cmd/compose/compose.go#L190-L203