首先，当窗口大小改变时，组件不会重新呈现，这意味着根据窗口宽度显示内容的if语句只会在第一次呈现时触发，这可能很好，但不推荐。
第二，你的错误“太多的重新呈现”是因为你直接在你的组件中调用setExpandMenu。每次你更新你的expandMenu状态，这个组件都会重新呈现。然后你再次更新它，所以它会再次重新呈现。看到这里的无限循环了吗？
下面是一个你想要的工作示例，包括更新窗口大小。我已经添加了注解来解释发生了什么：

const [expandMenu, setExpandMenu] = useState(false); 
    const [windowWidth, setWindowWidth] = useState(0)

       useEffect(() => { // This will update your state depending on your window size
        function updateSize() {
        setWindowWidth(window.innerWidth)
          

        }
        window.addEventListener('resize', updateSize);
        updateSize();
        return () => window.removeEventListener('resize', updateSize);
      }, []);

      const handleOpenMenu = () => {
        setExpandMenu(!expandMenu);
      };

    const renderDialogue = () => {

        
        if (windowWidth > 654 || expandMenu) {
          return (
            <Dialog
              open={expandMenu}
              handler={() => handleOpenMenu()}
              size={"xl"}
              className={"bg-transparent shadow-none "}
            >
              <DialogBody>
                <div className={"relative"}>
                  <img
                    src={"/imgFolder2/cloud.webp"}
                    className={"h-full float-center"}
                  />
                  <ul className="flex flex-col justify-center h-[75%] gap-5 text-2xl text-center absolute top-[50%] left-[50%] translate-x-[-50%] translate-y-[-50%] w-[55%]">
                    {NavItems()}
                  </ul>
                </div>
              </DialogBody>
            </Dialog>
          );
        } else {
          // setExpandMenu(false); <--- This line is causing rerenders: Remove it!
          return <> </>;
        }