SingleChildScrollView(
          child : ListView.builer(
            shrinkWrap: true,
            reverse: true,
            physics: NeverScrollableScrollPhysics(),
            itemBuilder: (BuildContext context, int index) {
              return something;
            },
          )
      );

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禁用ListView的滚动，并在顶部添加SingleChildScrollView。希望这对你有用。

1.在选项容器和合成文本容器之间使用SizedBox。
1.在使用addPostFrameCallback完成初始构建后，获取SizedBox的精确初始高度。
1.在输入文本时，保持尺寸框更小。
1.使用TextPainter获取文本的高度，以便按比例降低SizedBox的高度。
请看下面的屏幕录音和代码：

的数据

import 'dart:math' as math;
import 'package:flutter/material.dart';
import 'package:flutter/rendering.dart';

void main() => runApp(MyApp());

class MyApp extends StatelessWidget {
  // This widget is the root of your application.
  @override
  Widget build(BuildContext context) {
    return MaterialApp(
      title: 'Flutter Demo',
      theme: ThemeData(
        primarySwatch: Colors.blue,
      ),
      home: const MyHomePage(title: 'Reverse ListView Demo'),
    );
  }
}

class MyHomePage extends StatefulWidget {
  const MyHomePage({Key key, this.title}) : super(key: key);

  final String title;

  @override
  _MyHomePageState createState() => _MyHomePageState();
}

class _MyHomePageState extends State<MyHomePage> with TickerProviderStateMixin {
  final TextEditingController _textController = TextEditingController();

  double _sizedBoxHeight;
  Size _screenSize;
  double _textHeight;
  final GlobalKey _redKey = GlobalKey();
  final GlobalKey _appBarKey = GlobalKey();
  double appBarHeight;

  List<Widget> widgets = [];

  Size _getSizes(GlobalKey key) {
    final RenderBox renderBoxRed = key.currentContext.findRenderObject();
    final sizeRed = renderBoxRed.size;
    return sizeRed;
  }

  num _textDetails(BuildContext context, [text = ""]) {
    final TextPainter textPainter = TextPainter(
      text: TextSpan(
        text: text,
        style: TextStyle(
            color: Colors.black,
            fontSize: Theme.of(context).textTheme.bodyText2.fontSize),
      ),
      textDirection: TextDirection.ltr,
      textScaleFactor: MediaQuery.of(context).textScaleFactor,
    )..layout(minWidth: 0, maxWidth: _screenSize.width);
    if (text.isEmpty) {
      return textPainter.size.height;
    } else {
      return textPainter.computeLineMetrics().length;
    }
  }

  _insertBlanks() async {
    final Size _appBarSize = _getSizes(_appBarKey);
    final Size _containerSize = _getSizes(_redKey);

    final int _blankLinesTotal = ((_screenSize.height -
            _appBarSize.height -
            _containerSize.height -
            60) ~/
        _textHeight);

    final double blankLinesHeight = _textHeight * _blankLinesTotal;
    _sizedBoxHeight = blankLinesHeight +
        (_screenSize.height -
            _appBarSize.height -
            _containerSize.height -
            60 -
            blankLinesHeight);
    widgets.insert(0, SizedBox(height: _sizedBoxHeight));
    setState(() {});
  }

  void _addRequest(String text, BuildContext context) {
    setState(() {
      if (_sizedBoxHeight > 0) {
        final int _numLines = _textDetails(context, text);
        _sizedBoxHeight = _sizedBoxHeight - (_textHeight * _numLines);
        widgets[widgets.length - 2] =
            SizedBox(height: _sizedBoxHeight >= 0 ? _sizedBoxHeight : 0);
      }
      widgets.insert(0, Text(text));
    });
  }

  @override
  initState() {
    super.initState();
    final Widget intro = buildHelperIntro();
    widgets.insert(0, intro);
    WidgetsBinding.instance.addPostFrameCallback((_) {
      _insertBlanks();
    });
  }

  @override
  void dispose() {
    _textController.dispose();
    super.dispose();
  }

  @override
  Widget build(BuildContext context) {
    _screenSize = MediaQuery.of(context).size;
    _textHeight = _textDetails(context);

    return Scaffold(
      appBar: AppBar(
        key: _appBarKey,
        elevation: 0.0,
        title: Text(widget.title),
      ),
      body: Container(
        color: Colors.black12, // Why doesn't this fill the full ListView?
        child: Column(
          children: <Widget>[
            Expanded(
              child: ListView.builder(
                reverse: true,
                itemBuilder: (_, index) => widgets[index],
                itemCount: widgets.length,
              ),
            ),
            const Divider(height: 1.0),
            Container(
              decoration: BoxDecoration(color: Theme.of(context).cardColor),
              child: _buildTextComposer(),
            ),
          ],
        ),
      ),
    );
  }

  Widget buildHelperIntro() {
    return Container(
      key: _redKey,
      color: Colors.black12,
      child: Column(
        children: <Widget>[
          Row(
            mainAxisSize: MainAxisSize.max,
            children: <Widget>[
              Expanded(
                child: Container(
                  padding: const EdgeInsets.fromLTRB(0.0, 4.0, 0.0, 8.0),
                  color: const Color(0xFF2196F3),
                  child: const Text(
                    "Hi! Try clicking an option below.",
                    textAlign: TextAlign.center,
                    style: TextStyle(
                      fontWeight: FontWeight.bold,
                      fontSize: 24.0,
                      color: Colors.white,
                    ),
                  ),
                ),
              ),
            ],
          ),
          Options(
            [
              "Option number 1",
              "Option number 2",
              "Option number 3",
              "Option number 4",
              "Option number 5",
            ],
            (text) {
              _addRequest(text, context);
            },
          ),
        ],
      ),
    );
  }

  updateSubmitButton() {
    if (!mounted) {
      return;
    }
    setState(() {
      // Force evaluation of _textController state.
    });
  }

  void _handleSubmitted(String text, BuildContext context) {
    _textController.clear();
    FocusScope.of(context).requestFocus(FocusNode()); // dismiss keyboard.
    updateSubmitButton();
    _addRequest(text, context);
  }

  Widget _buildTextComposer() {
    return IconTheme(
      data: IconThemeData(color: Theme.of(context).accentColor),
      child: Container(
        height: 60.0,
        margin: const EdgeInsets.symmetric(horizontal: 8.0),
        child: Row(children: <Widget>[
          Flexible(
            child: Card(
              color: Colors.white,
              shape: const RoundedRectangleBorder(
                side: BorderSide(
                  color: Colors.black12,
                ),
                borderRadius: BorderRadius.all(Radius.circular(20.0)),
              ),
              child: Padding(
                padding: const EdgeInsets.all(12.0),
                child: TextField(
                  controller: _textController,
                  onChanged: (String text) {
                    updateSubmitButton();
                  },
                  onSubmitted: (text) {
                    _handleSubmitted(text, context);
                  },
                  decoration: const InputDecoration.collapsed(
                    hintText: "Start typing...",
                  ),
                ),
              ),
            ),
          ),
          Container(
              child: IconButton(
            icon: const Icon(Icons.send, color: Color(0xFF2196F3)),
            onPressed: _textController.text.length > 0
                ? () => _handleSubmitted(_textController.text, context)
                : null,
          )),
        ]),
      ),
    );
  }
}

typedef StringCallback(String text);

class Options extends StatelessWidget {
  final List<String> requests;
  final StringCallback addRequest;

  const Options(this.requests, this.addRequest);

  @override
  Widget build(BuildContext context) {
    final children = List.generate(
        2 * requests.length - 1,
        (int index) => index % 2 == 0
            ? _SingleRequest(requests[index ~/ 2], addRequest)
            : const Divider(color: Colors.black));

    return CustomPaint(
      painter: _DrawArc(),
      child: Padding(
        padding: const EdgeInsets.fromLTRB(14.0, 8.0, 14.0, 8.0),
        child: Card(
          elevation: 10.0,
          color: Colors.white,
          shape: const RoundedRectangleBorder(
              borderRadius: BorderRadius.all(Radius.circular(20.0))),
          child: Padding(
            padding: const EdgeInsets.fromLTRB(0.0, 8.0, 0.0, 8.0),
            child: Column(
              crossAxisAlignment: CrossAxisAlignment.start,
              children: children,
            ),
          ),
        ),
      ),
    );
  }
}

class _SingleRequest extends StatelessWidget {
  final String request;
  final StringCallback addRequest;

  const _SingleRequest(this.request, this.addRequest);

  @override
  Widget build(BuildContext context) {
    return FlatButton(
      onPressed: () {
        addRequest(request);
      },
      child: Row(
        mainAxisSize: MainAxisSize.max,
        mainAxisAlignment: MainAxisAlignment.start,
        children: <Widget>[
          const Padding(
            padding: const EdgeInsets.fromLTRB(4.0, 0.0, 0.0, 3.0),
            child: CircleAvatar(
              radius: 10.0,
              backgroundColor: Color(0xFF2196F3),
              child: CircleAvatar(
                radius: 6.0,
                backgroundColor: Colors.white,
              ),
            ),
          ),
          Padding(
            padding: const EdgeInsets.fromLTRB(12.0, 6.0, 0.0, 4.0),
            child: Text(
              request,
              style: const TextStyle(
                color: Colors.black,
                fontSize: 20.0,
              ),
            ),
          ),
        ],
      ),
    );
  }
}

class _DrawArc extends CustomPainter {
  @override
  void paint(Canvas canvas, Size size) {
    const padH = 52.0;
    final Paint paint = Paint()..color = const Color(0xFF2196F3);
    canvas.drawRect(Rect.fromLTWH(0.0, 0.0, size.width, padH), paint);
    final h = 0.1 * size.height;
    canvas.drawArc(Rect.fromLTWH(0.0, -0.5 * h + padH, size.width, h), 0.0,
        math.pi, false, paint);
  }

  @override
  bool shouldRepaint(CustomPainter oldDelegate) => false;
}

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return ListView.builder(
  shrinkWrap: true,
  reverse: true,
  itemCount: messages.length,
  itemBuilder: (context, itemIndex) {
    return ConversationListItem(messages[messages.length - 1 - itemIndex]);
  },
);

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也许我误解了你的问题。但为什么不删除reverse: true，因为它默认为false

StoreConnector<_ViewModel, List<Message>>(
      converter: (store) {
        // check mark ,reverse data list
        if (isReverse) return store.state.dialogList;
        return store.state.dialogList.reversed.toList();
      },
      builder: (context, dialogs) {
        // Add a callback when UI render after. then change it direction;
        WidgetsBinding.instance.addPostFrameCallback((t) {
          // check it's items could be scroll
          bool newMark = _listViewController.position.maxScrollExtent > 0;
          if (isReverse != newMark) { // need 
            isReverse = newMark;  // rebuild listview
            setState(() {});
          }
        });

        return ListView.builder(
          reverse: isReverse, // if data less, it will false now.
          controller: _listViewController,
          itemBuilder: (context, index) => _bubbleItem(context, dialogs[index], index),
          itemCount: dialogs.length,
        );
      },
    )

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SingleChildScrollView(
      reverse: false,
      child: ListView.builder(
        shrinkWrap: true,
        reverse: true,
        physics: NeverScrollableScrollPhysics(),
        itemCount: 10,
        itemBuilder: (context, index){
          return Container();
        },
      ),
    )

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