当我选择一个项目时，我希望该项目的背景色是此颜色#d3ddff，而不是默认颜色https://imgur.com/n5KDzx6
当我悬停在一个项目，我希望该项目的背景颜色只是白色
点击项目后，我点击文本框，有“身体2”键入的东西，所选项目的背景颜色应该仍然是#d3ddff，而不是像这样的白色https://imgur.com/mFXxFDS也在图像中，你可以看到，|如果TextBox的文本框是黑色的，我如何将其设置为白色，以便用户知道他/她已经选择了TextBox或正在键入？
另外，当我点击一个项目并按下ALT键时，该项目现在周围有一个虚线轮廓，我如何才能摆脱它？像这样https://imgur.com/WVuhQpt
这是我的XAML的完整源代码

<UserControl
    x:Class="Notes.WPF.Views.NotesListingView"
    xmlns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml/presentation"
    xmlns:x="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml"
    xmlns:d="http://schemas.microsoft.com/expression/blend/2008"
    xmlns:dropdownmenucontrol="clr-namespace:DropdownMenuControl;assembly=DropdownMenuControl"
    xmlns:local="clr-namespace:Notes.WPF.Views"
    xmlns:mc="http://schemas.openxmlformats.org/markup-compatibility/2006"
    xmlns:whitedropdownmenucontrol="clr-namespace:WhiteDropdownMenuControl;assembly=WhiteDropdownMenuControl"
    d:DesignHeight="450"
    d:DesignWidth="800"
    mc:Ignorable="d">
    <Grid>
        <Grid.RowDefinitions>
            <RowDefinition Height="auto" />
            <RowDefinition Height="*" />
        </Grid.RowDefinitions>

        <Button
            Grid.Row="0"
            Height="40"
            Command="{Binding CreateCommand}"
            Content="Add a new note" />

        <Border
            Grid.Row="1"
            Margin="0,20,0,0"
            CornerRadius="5"
            SnapsToDevicePixels="True">
            <Grid>
                <Grid.OpacityMask>
                    <VisualBrush Visual="{Binding ElementName=Border}" />
                </Grid.OpacityMask>
                <Border
                    x:Name="Border"
                    Background="White"
                    CornerRadius="5" />

                <ListView
                    Grid.Row="1"
                    Background="#2b2d30"
                    BorderThickness="0"
                    ItemsSource="{Binding NotesListingItemViewModel}"
                    SelectedItem="{Binding SelectedNotesListingItemViewModel}">
                    <ListView.ItemContainerStyle>
                        <Style TargetType="ListViewItem">
                            <Setter Property="HorizontalContentAlignment" Value="Stretch" />
                            <Setter Property="BorderThickness" Value="0" />
                        </Style>
                    </ListView.ItemContainerStyle>
                    <ListView.ItemTemplate>
                        <DataTemplate>
                            <Border Padding="10">
                                <Grid>
                                    <Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
                                        <ColumnDefinition Width="*" />
                                        <ColumnDefinition Width="auto" />
                                    </Grid.ColumnDefinitions>

                                    <TextBlock Grid.Column="0" Text="{Binding Title}" />

                                    <whitedropdownmenucontrol:WhiteDropdownMenu Grid.Column="1">
                                        <StackPanel>
                                            <Button
                                                Width="200"
                                                Height="40"
                                                Padding="10"
                                                Content="MARKED AS COMPLETE" />
                                            <Button
                                                Width="200"
                                                Height="40"
                                                Padding="10"
                                                Content="MARKED AS IMPORTANT" />
                                            <Button
                                                Width="200"
                                                Height="40"
                                                Padding="10"
                                                Content="DELETE" />
                                        </StackPanel>
                                    </whitedropdownmenucontrol:WhiteDropdownMenu>
                                </Grid>
                            </Border>
                        </DataTemplate>
                    </ListView.ItemTemplate>
                </ListView>
            </Grid>

        </Border>
    </Grid>
</UserControl>

我不能在谷歌找到它，真正帮助我，解决我的问题。ChatGPT和Google Bard不能给予实际有帮助的答案