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Ⅰ. Issue Description

JVM startup parameters are not uniform and difficult to maintain. It is hoped that the JVM parameters can be maintained in only one place.

release package：
https://github.com/seata/seata/blob/develop/distribution/bin/seata-server.sh

docker image startup parameters by jib
https://github.com/seata/seata/blob/0cdaa08ec8f1ad060bb01a770cbc5d02c3ed6350/server/pom.xml#L279

Ⅱ. Describe what happened

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Ⅲ. Describe what you expected to happen

Ⅳ. How to reproduce it (as minimally and precisely as possible)

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